Author: Clara Alexander


Letting go of control Control can be disguised as many things. Is the desire to be in control just as bad as being controlled. Are both a form of prison. One of self the other of others.I am in deep thought over this question. As I reflect on the emotions I get when I feel […]


Loneliness can have significant impacts on both our mental and physical well-being. Some of the effects of loneliness include: 1. Mental Health: Loneliness is often associated with an increased risk of mental health problems such as depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem. It can also contribute to feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and social isolation. 2. Physical […]

Who Am I

Who are you created to be ? What is it with all the labels. Do you label me to contain me or define me Why define me with labels that keep me imprisoned. Should I be defined by the label imposed on me.  Curtain my not I object I am not defined by my past or my absolutes. I am […]


Beauty Am I beautiful ? They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If the beholder is the observer, Should I trust the words of the beholder I guess the question is,  Who is the beholder I like to think I get the choice to decide for myself who beholds my beauty  But above […]


How can I remove fear from my mind  Fear an emotion caused by the threat of danger, pain or harm. Danger the risk that a person or thing that may cause pain. Am I in pain?  Pain a highly unpleasant physical sensation caused by illness or injury. Am I injured or ill?  Harm is physical […]


When Jealousy Creeps in Why me ! Is it fair that I’m here.  I try to remember the positives but all I recall is disappointment.  Do I have to pretend to be happy for them. The promotion, the family, the life. It’s all a bit too much.  How do I change my thoughts. Grab a […]


The Disruptive Consequences of Greed Am I greedy or do I just want more  The dictionary defines greed as the intense and selfish desire for something. Is it wrong to go after after something with a passion? Am I greedy because I struggle to involve others in achieving my goals. When I say I’m contempt am […]